Of Words, Gestures and Language Games

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To be understood.

That is the primary and most important purpose of words, or generally, of communication. People say things to be heard and be understood. To say differently is to cheat one's self---it defeats the very purpose of words.

However, things are not as clear cut. There are things such as noises and gestures and contexts and preconceived notions which ALTER, or worse, DISTORT the intended meaning of words being heard. There is this philosophical concept called LANGUAGE GAME which should be used simultaneously by the parties communicating, or simply people conversing, in order to UNDERSTAND each other.

Take the word "wicked" as an example. To some, it may connote negatively. "You're wicked as a witch." Conversely, it may even be a praise, "Wow, you're wicked sick!" The point is, words are interpreted differently by different people. Ergo, one should be sure that all parties/individuals are both "playing" the same language game before he/she reacts to what was heard.

This is a common source of misunderstanding among individuals. Not everyone realizes that all individuals have more-or-less DIFFERENT language games. Basically, PROPERLY construing a meaning out of words is a bit complicated than it sounds. First and most natural, we construe the words' NATURAL and PLAIN meaning. The problem is, majority of the people [un]intentionally STOP here and refuse to go the next levels, which are the determination of the INTENT of the speaker and the evaluation of the CONTEXT surrounding the communication process. Don't worry about the jargons, these are really very simple.

The words "I love you" may sound more credible if it were not to come from a man of ill-repute. The words will also sound more sincere if they were uttered in a near-death situation than in an ordinary day. Words and their meanings are very fragile, and should be handled with due care, knowledge and responsibility.

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Twilight

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The truth about every story?



They all start with the STARE.

The first stage. The silent, noisy prelude. Sometimes planned, sometimes accidental, but the latter provides the greater excitement.

The stare is essential in a story.


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They say that when you meet the person of your dreams, time stops.

When I saw her, time stopped.

And moved on.

When I saw another her, time halted again.

And moved on.

When I saw another her again, time stopped again.

And went on again.

This was just about it, for a couple of times.

But when I saw HER...


Time froze. As if every other minute detail of the world froze. The long queue of people around skidded to a halt. The droplets of water from the school fountain were suspended in mid-air. The wind stopped, the world fell silent. A friend, who tripped and was on the verge of diving face-first upon the cold, shiny red floor seemed to be flying. The professors dining around the long table looked to be da Vinci's Last Supper---very still yet vividly animated.

I walked toward her. Unblinking. When my face was just inches away from hers, I reached out to hold her cheek. Slowly, I began reach for her lips.

But when it was about to happen, everything moved again. Everything moved again real fast. Fast-forward.


Time is passing...


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Three Strings

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Shrouded by mystery
He plays strange tunes
On a cold night of June
On his cold, old guitar


With his missing three strings
He started to sing
To hum, haunting songs
As if there's nothing wrong


As he taps on the board
Hi fingers delicately
Moving---a beautiful noise
From the out-of-tune guitar


His eyes, in such sorrow
Stares with silent madness
Even joy dances with sadness
That strays tonight, til morrow


He stands and turns away
From this stoned, uncaring place
With all the things he brought today
BUT ONE, he took them all away


Guess what is it he left behind?
Alone, on its own, for someone to find
The man then stopped, to turn and see
The guitar found its way to me


The guitar found its way to me
The guitar found its way to me


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31 - August - 2010
22:12

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Sweet Surrender

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Far away, solitude shivers
Heartbreakingly sweet and bitter
The last of your furtive glances
Would put to shame all romances

You held the place that never was
I treasure that, which never was
My anguish, for I let it pass
As I look down on broken glass

To you I shared my wildest dreams
While you listened, my faint heart screams
And as your words filled me with love
I found myself mid-air, above

That very scene I wished to last
Beyond eternity and past
Your voice that is enrapturing
Forevermore, a song to sing

If I could fly for once then die
I'd fly with you with your closed eyes
For what is there in every breath
Without you life is almost death

And now, you'll see a heinous crime
That one which will be heard all time
I'll tell you this, for once, for all
Though I'm quite sure that you won't fall

For that same trap I laid before
That victimized a hundred-four
But rest assured, I promise you
This is the last---the LAST I'd do


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21:55
24 - August - 2010

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Prelude to a Season's Perfection

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Cogito Ergo Sum.

The timeless maxim is indeed, timeless. It has always been about thinking and rationality---the core of human existence being attributed to a person's ability to rationalize. The "value" of perceiving what is right and wrong, of realizing what is and what is not, of distinguishing what is possible and what is futile---is an "absolute value" which everyone who hopes to be considered as "existent" must possess.

Given the chance, Descartes may have even added a particular qualification to that quote if he saw what kind of mess society has turned into. I think "correctly," therefore I exist. What constitutes "good" and "correct" thinking is still debatable, but for the sake of argument, it will be considered that "good" and "correct" refers to the common, usual, natural and greater good. And the ability to make decisions based on these things is a necessary, sometimes even an essential part of choosing and decision-making. The assumptions are reasonable and logical.

But on the contrary, if one is to look into it more deeply, one may find out that rationality can often be a hindrance. Absolute subscription to rationality confines one to the bounds of rationality, and zeroes out any chance for transcendence. For how can one take a seemingly illogical, irrational, even "mad" step if rationality is considered of highest value? Most, if not all of the steps leading to higher states and places require leaps of faith and seemingly absurd and irrational choices.

But again, there is no issue if one is contented with the status quo.

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[RE] AFFIRMATION

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I used to believe in the existence of angels.

The thought of winged, person-like creatures roaming around to safeguard us from evil was just irresistible. The image of a man, or a woman, clad in flowing white with flapping, majestic wings, ready to save us from any kind of wickedness, was my blanket of security. The mere thought comes in inevitably during moments of fear and distress. And almost surely, when moments like these arise, I see my own "guardian" fending off the vile---which used to be my childhood enemies, those cumbersome bullies.

Until such a time when I had my first moment of real embarrassment in front of the girl in pigtails whom I adored so much. The increased level of consciousness decreased my perception of angels with majestic wings. I thought that this was the effect of increased homework, increased activity, increased responsibility, and I thought right. I no longer saw the guardians fending off my self-made enemies.

Except for a time when I was almost hit by a speeding truck. I saw a winged being swoop down toward me, from nowhere. Naturally, I stood frozen on my tracks marveling at the sight. Later, I realized that I could have died had I taken a single step.

Time passed and I forgot about the hovering, winged being.

I was resigned to the fact that angels do not show themselves to human beings. Or at least, they do not show themselves as flying men and women in flowing white robes, with golden hair and golden trumpets. I was content to admit that if angels indeed thrived on Earth, then the wicked that permeated from the bowels of humanity would never exist---that nothing untoward, inherently evil would ever happen.

I was resigned to the fact that logic explained all that needs explaining. I was resigned to logic and its absolute value. I believed in logic.

And logic tells me to never believe in flying women in white robes.

Until that DAY. And the day that followed. And the day that followed, again.

In the deepest recesses of my mind, a tinge of doubt stirred---a stir that created ripples through my entire system.

I was in a pinch, was distressed and at loss for action. I was in a great deal of pain and doubt, of apprehension and uncertainty. Just like when I was faced with those cumbersome bullies.

And then, I saw you.

I found myself waiting---waiting for you to spread your wings. And lift me.

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Wither

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you look at me
with weary eyes, heavy sighs
you ask of me
to just forget the foolish lies
you buried deep
inside my mind

a troubled past
a troubled mind hidden beneath
your caressing grasp

your caressing touch
traitorously
reveals itself

a dream within a dream
a curse within a curse
upon your gaze I stagger
my being torn asunder

an old shadow
a breath devoid of life
a familiar face

a life without a breath
burns and lives on
inside my mind

time won't bring back
even if it can
the times long gone

the chance that was missed
as oblivion pulls away
moments and memories

a wish within a wish
a death within a death
upon your gaze I stagger
my being torn asunder

Farewell.

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Doon Sa Amin

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Weakling. Weakling!

Paulit-ulit sinasaklot ng salitang ito ang kanyang hinagap. Weakling. Wala naman talagang malalim na kahulugan. Wala nga ba?

Hindi niya kasalanan kung bakit siya ganoon, hindi niya gustong magbigay ng ganoong impresyon. Ngunit sa ayaw niya o sa gusto, ganoon ang mga tao. Kung ano ang unang pumasok sa

isip, yun na. Kung nakita nilang pipilay-pilay, kawawa. Kung nakita nilang magulo ang buhok, marumi ang katawan at madungis, snatcher yan. Kung nakitang sobrang payatin at

mukhang mahina ang katawan, may TB yan. Kung nakita nilang may kotse, maporma't may hitsura, wow, mayaman at pwede yan. Kung nakita nilang "pangit" ay hindi ka papansinin at

madalas ay magiging tampulan ka ng sari-saring panlalait. Kung lalaki ka naman at napansing may itsura ka, aba, babaero yan.

Uy, babaero yan. At kung sinong kawawang babae ang kasama niyang naglalakad sa oras na yun ay ang kawawang "bagong tsiks". Automatic yun.

At dahil uso na ang pakikipagtsismisan mula pa noong panahon ni Rizal, kakalat na parang cold virus ang balita. May bagong tsiks ang binata.

Haha. Mga anak nga kayo ni Boy Abunda.

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DotA at Pag-ibig

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Hehe. Somebody wanted me to make a poem with bitterness and DotA elements in it.

This poem can be best appreciated if you play and are familiar with DotA terms as they say. If not, well, just enjoy the bitter part. HEhehe.

All italicized words are DotA related.

(DotA --> Defense of the Ancients, a Warcraft game)


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The Heart's Vendetta


You have enchanted me for an eternity
Where everything is an arcane ignominy
When your eyes ensnare my whole totality
You illuminate the aphotic side of me

To tread an ice path with you I'll dare
To walk on a freezing field even if my feet were bare
To catch the chain frost of the Lich King I'll do
To do a dark ritual of chakra for you

With a dark rift of space you suddenly wavered
The borrowed time we spent now you don't remember
The tormented soul's spirit has now been angered
The song of the siren is finally over

The expulsion of affection seemed to unleash its godly wrath
After the sandstorm I found myself in bloodbath
The moonlight's shadow is now upon my face
The starfall from heaven is now a blinding haze

Your frost armor repels you away from me
The chain-lightning of hate is now in the story
You ripped my soul, you stopped my heart
But the midnight pulse of your memory I can't part

And now I am in a black hole with no sense of light
With Lucifer the Doom Bringer pestering me inside
And now as I battle this test of faith with fury
The Scourge of the Sentinel is a burden above me

But I still see what happened as a lunar blessing
Even if you assassinated my whole being
With unholy fervor I still search the world
With bloodlust anger I let my vengeful spirit unfold

I finally take off this whole mask of madness
And soon I'll get rid of this blade mail of sadness
Be afraid for I have now my dagger of escape
From this astral prison never will my ashes be made

The great cleave of agony has taken its toll
My once soul booster has now been lifestealing all
You are once my butterfly but now my stinging bee
And my tarrasque of a heart aches for the blade of alacrity

My sanity's eclipse seems to be occurring rapidly
Nevermore will I think of you, In my mind it won't be
But I still thank you, despite all these penitence
For you have put me, from Oblivion to Existence.


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I made this poem back in 2007. Nahalungkat ko lang ulit. Hahaha. Enjoy.

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